Better Not Bitter

It's been several months since my last writing; I've been growing with the Lord! It's been almost 4 years since my storm  raged.....

Many times we go through seasons that we don't understand, but we must put our trust in God, knowing that He has our best interest at heart. In order to be able to help others, when the time comes, we must be healed of all hurts, first. And only God can do the healing!

 After 2 years of hurt and total devastation, God had to work on me (even more than He had in those 2 years). I've not written any encouraging words because I haven't felt as though I had any to write. Going through storms can produce many emotions---hurt, anger, anxiety, depression, and a multitude of other emotions that most people can't even describe. My best advice: TRUST GOD!! Cry out to Him and He will comfort you and take you THROUGH the storm.

I am a different person, today! Glory to God!! I faced rejection 2 years in a row, all from different sources. It can almost make one bitter. Don't let it!! ... I know, much easier said than done! But, with God's help, we can come out better, not bitter. The struggle is/was real - At times I wanted to give up. I didn't! God didn't change the situation, but He changed me!! Then, the situation began to change!! To God be the Glory!

Hopefully, with God's leading, I can continue my writings. My prayer is that I can encourage everyone in some small way.

Thank you for stopping by and remember: Jesus loves you!....Never forget that!!

Praising God.....For......I'm BETTER......NOT BITTER!!

GodzGirl

Season To Season

As I look back over the seasons of my life, I have many memories. Some good - Some bad! But, even the bad times have been for my good.

Romans 8:28  ALL things work together for our good, to those that love the Lord and are called according to His purpose.

We all go through many different seasons in life; seasons of friendships and seasons alone. No matter which season you find yourself in, know that God has gone before you and is with you in each moment.

Ecclesiastes 3:1  To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven...

If you've found yourself in a season without friendships, which I have before, there is something there for you to see. God has a lesson for each of us. He is with us no matter the circumstance; leading, guiding, and teaching us as we journey through the "alone" time. We must call on Him, asking Him to show us what He wants us to see and learn. He is always with us, but sometimes we have to be in complete solitude in order to get our eyes completely focused on Him.

Matthew 6:33  But seek ye first the kingdom of God....

As we seek Him, holding tight to His Word, we will feel His presence and sweet loving arms around us. Through every season, good and bad, we must remember that He will use everything for our good.

Enjoy the season, knowing there is purpose in pain, spiritual growth in suffering, lessons in the long-suffering, and His love in the loneliness. He is leading you and me from an ordinary season into an extraordinary season!!

Embrace the moment, knowing God loves you and is giving you different seasons in order to change you into the person He designed you to be!!

Changing through Christ....

Winter Storm 2014

What a day! January 28, 2014 will definitely go down in history.

Just sharing my thoughts on the 'winter storm'......

As bad as all of this 'winter storm' has been, maybe God intervened in order to protect some people.....Again, just my thoughts. I do look for the 'good' in everything.

• I wonder how many people were planning to stop by a bar, for a few drinks after work? - Possibly taking an innocent life afterward.

• I wonder what deranged person was planning an attack on a school or a downtown office building? - Possibly injuring or taking the life of an innocent person, or persons.

• I wonder if there was someone planning on robbing a bank or a store, at gun point? - Possibly leaving devastation in their tracks.

• I wonder if there was a student, being bullied at school, who was contemplating suicide when he/she got home, before the parents return? - Possibly leaving confused and hurt parents behind.

There are many reasons for God's intervention, or allowance of the situation. As bad as it has been for alot of people, maybe being stranded in a car, a motel, or even at school, was the perfect place of protection God placed them in. Our ways are not His ways.....

 

 

Isaiah 55:8 "For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are your ways My ways," says the Lord. (NKJV)

 

 

Now, just a few more thoughts on the happenings, in the midst of the 'winter storm'........

 

• What about the baby that was born on the side of 285? Maybe those parents understand, a little deeper, the miracle they've been given? 
 

• What about all of the people that opened up their hearts and homes, to the stranded 'strangers'? Maybe someone saw Jesus while staying warm in a stranger's home.

 

• What about all the 'strangers' getting out of their cars, banning together, to push another 'stranger' up a hill? Maybe that was the encouragement someone needed to restore their faith.

 

I think we can all thank God today for something. This entire 'winter storm' caused havoc among many, and may continue through today, but God is still in control. Through all of this, God has protected His loved ones, in many different ways.

 

I believe in all of this, many have had their faith restored, have realized how precious life is, and have seen Jesus in that stranger. God has a plan for each and every one of us. Maybe He just wanted to remind us all of his command.....

 

 

John 15:12  This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you (NKJV)

 

 

I believe there was, and still is, alot of love being shown out there on those icy roads, and in that stranger's home. And, this is making God smile. So, praise God for something today and if given the opportunity, show some love!

 

 For those that didn't have to get out, the many prayers, for safe returns, were definitely heard.

 

 

GOD REIGNS AND THE SON SHINES, even in the midst of a 'winter storm'!!

 

 

 







Identify the Pride

I was an athlete growing up, even into adult years; it's what brought me out of my 'shy shell' - My Identity was in sports = Pride!

I held an awesome job that few women had (or have), and enjoyed it and all of my co-workers, for 30 years - My Identity was in a job = Pride!

I had a good salary and money in the bank; I had done, and was doing, well. I could help anyone at anytime - My Identity was in money = Pride!

I had a church family that I loved; I worked hard in the church, giving anything to anyone, but focus was lost - My Identity was in 'what I was doing' = Pride!

I was married to a man I loved very much - He had a great singing voice, which made me 'proud' to be his wife - My Identity was in a man = Pride!

Each of these 'prideful identifiers' slowly ended; Some by my choice - Some being forced - But all ended, leaving me empty for a short time.

Proverbs 16:18 Pride goes before destruction, And a haughty spirit before a fall

 

I came to a point where I had nothing; and nothing to be 'proud' of! But, at that moment God stepped in and showed me, and is continuing to show me, He is all I need!! He had to purge the pride! Too many things were taking up space where He belonged.

 

When I got to the end of my rope, or I should say, the end of ME, God reached down and pulled me up. I had to let go of things, and my pride, and grab hold to Him.

 

I may be alone, without what once 'identified' me and made me 'proud', but with Jesus I'm never alone - He has promised to be, and shows me each day that He is with me - He IS ALL I need!! He is beginning to restore and replace some things in my life, financially and spiritually, but I'm no longer proud of the things of this world but am proud to proclaim I'm His daughter and He is my Father!

1 John 2:15-17 Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world - the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life - is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world is passing away and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.

 

 

Today, let God 'purge the pride'! He will RESCUE-REDEEM-RESTORE and RENEW you, as only He can do!!

 

 

Purged of Pride and Planted in Him........

 





Happy New Year.....Or Is It?

YES, IT IS !!!

2013 has come and gone! Along the way there have been good times and bad; nothing, though, can compare to the love that I've felt from God. I'm sure many of you can say the same.

Through every difficulty, He held me close, giving me exactly what I needed. Was it financial help? Was it Spiritual help? Was it an encouraging word from a friend? Was it a ray of sunshine on a seemingly cloudy day? Was it a touch from Him?.....Yes, it was all of those things....In His timing!!

Philippians 4:19  And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

 

It IS and WILL BE a happy one, even if there are times of difficulties. God has walked before me, and you, to provide a way for us to make it through the hard times. He knows before we do what we will need and when--Trust Him and be happy where you are!! He loves You!!

 

Philippians 4:11 Not that I speak in regard to need , for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content.

 

Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

 

God did not bring you or me to the end of 2013 for any of us to go out feeling sad or regretful. Sure, we've loved, we've lost, we've cried, but, also we've smiled, we've laughed, and we've learned, so that we can move into 2014 with the One we know loves us and will never leave us. So, let's leave everything back in 2013, taking only the valuable lessons, and move forward holding onto our confidence in God and reaching for what lies ahead.

 

Philippians 3:13-14 Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

 

So, grab hold of God's unwavering hand, along with me, and be all He wants you to be in 2014! Give God the glory for Who He is and Whose you are.....He chose you for a purpose.....2014 will be awesome - He isn't done with us yet! And He will make the way clear while making us new, for and in the new year!!

 

Philippians 1:6 being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ;

 

 

Here's to a Happy 2014 and A New You!!